Why Do We Have Relationships?
Relationships,
whether as expansive as our connection to each and every person on this planet,
or the most intimate of our personal relationships, offer a key way in which we
learn our spiritual life lessons. Self
validation, compassion, patience, trust, self worth; you name it, whatever we
have signed up to learn this lifetime, we unconsciously use relationships to explore,
heal and grow.
Relationships
become fascinating when we consider “what is it that I am trying to learn or
heal by connecting with this person?”
When we begin to see relationships in this context we start to take
responsibility for what is going on in our relationship and we come to
recognize that we always have a choice to engage or disengage from energy and
dynamics.
As you come
to understand just what it is that you are working on whether with an
individual or with a group you can empower yourself to do your work without the
drama that often accompanies our relationships. Then our relationships become effortless,
joyful and enjoyable. You will no longer
need someone else to trigger or activate areas within yourself in order to
learn and heal.
How Do I Know What I’m Working On?